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    12 July

    弯路

     今天看一些美国华裔家长的教育博客, 原来他们把中国家长的普遍愿望概括为希望孩子“爬藤”。
    也就是俗称的上藤校。
    看到那些国内报纸上近乎病态的宣传报道, 家长们伸直了脖子无不做着常春藤的梦。
    谁在做梦呢? 替孩子做梦, 替孩子做主, 无疑是通病。
    就像我的青春谁做主里的霹雳她妈一样的。
     
    我很幸运, 因为达成的是我自己的梦想。
    所谓光鲜, 所谓“飞黄腾达”, 所谓好运气,
    其实走过的弯路都化在无奈和无可奈何的微笑里了。
    别人不知我自知。
    一次次的选择失误, 信息量的缺失, 自身的放松, 以至于咽下了不少苦果。
    老天已经足够眷顾我, 儿时的单纯梦想还没有完全被我的贪玩给玩丢。
    我走着弯路, 七拐八拐的还是基本实现了小时候书上向往的愿望。
    人要努力的时候没有找借口的余地, 要冲时必须冲。
    挫折教育是说的好听而已, 后悔的还是自己。
    成功他妈妈要尝尝, 但老尝就别找冠冕堂皇的好话了, 那叫不思进取太随遇而安。
    弯路不能走太多, 是时候放弃羊肠小道走直了。
    很清楚自己想要的是什么, 要是因为执行力的缺乏而擦肩而过岂不太可惜?
     

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    wayne zhangwrote:
    ...不思进取太随遇而安...
    13 July

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